每个人都有自己的创意性质 (CREATIVE)

人是有创意的吗？

笔者现在是一位实习辅导员。
当我们学习理论时，有一个理论说：

“人都有他们个人创意，用来解决他们的问题。”

笔者本来对这个理论所提出的言论抱着怀疑的态度。
但是笔者有一个client却让我相信了这个言论。

还记得笔者洗肾病人不能喝太多的水吗？
这位client却让笔者很感动。
因为他运用了他的创意来多他那限制多多的生活。
渴了不能喝水，他就用水果来替代。
平时不能喝太多的自己爱喝的黑咖啡，他就在洗肾时慢慢享受咖啡的好。
因为喝进体内的水很难以尿排出体外，他就常常都出走走，让自己多出汗。
让我真正感动的事，这位client很努力的让自己活得比以前更好。
他所领悟的不只是用在自己的身上，他也把他的方法分享给其他的肾病病人。

人是有自己独自的创意性。你呢？你用在那里了？
快！把他挖出来， 让自己活得比以前好！

First Of May from Bee Gees

First of May

When I was small, and christmas trees were tall,
We used to love while others used to play.
Don’t ask me why, but time has passed us by,
Someone else moved in from far away.

Now we are tall, and christmas trees are small,
And you don’t ask the time of day.
But you and i, our love will never die,
But guess who’ll cry come first of may.

The apple tree that grew for you and me,
I watched the apples falling one by one.
And as I recall the moment of them all,
The day I kissed your cheek and you were gone.

Now we are tall, and christmas trees are small,
And you don’t ask the time of day.
But you and i, our love will never die,
But guess who’ll cry come first of may.

When I was small, and christmas trees were tall,
Do do do do do do do do do ...
Don’t ask me why, but time has passed us by,
Someone else moved in from far away.

This is a very nice song....
But what I love is not the sweet melody of this song,
what I love the most is the meanings of this song.
The time has passed by......we are in different places....
our love will never die.....
to all my friends......remember.........
wherever we are......our love, our friendship will never die....
it's just the time passed by......

A Walk To Remeber

Some people have a long lives; Some people just live for a short time.
May be one year, one month, one week, one day, one hour, one minute or one second.....
We don't know how long we live, we don't know.....

Life is just like a record!
One day we all will go back to our Father's bosom,
What will you going to tell Him about your journey to earth?

Your happy?
Your sadness?
Your hardship?
Your joyful?
Your gain?
Your failure?........

If you have a walk with God,
a walk to look back your lifetime.....
a walk to remember your lifetime.....
What will you going to remember？
What is your theme of your walk to remember with God?

肾病

我最常接触的病人是洗肾中心的病人。为什么？哈哈， 因为他们不乖啰！

不乖？有肾病的病人在日常生活中是非常痛苦的。他们必须控制身体的体重和喝水的分量。你想想看华人的名句：‘吃饭皇帝大’，‘民与食为天’......... 要控制吃和喝是非常痛苦的事！

笔者的client有50%是洗肾病人。通常只有在他们过重的情况下，他们才会被医护人员（Medical Asistance) refer 给辅导部门，接受辅导。所以，笔者为了与病人'debate' (辩论要有料才能赢；赢了病人才会觉悟；笔者是用心良苦啊！）， 才虚心地向一位对笔者非常亲切洗肾中心的MA “拿料” 唔..........是请教有关肾病的知识。

有肾病的病人一天只可以喝500ml的水分（包括喝汤和吃水果所得的水分）。因为身体的肾坏了，不能正常的排除每日所喝的水量，所以人所喝的水会集聚在体内，让心脏的负荷太大，身体会出现水肿，呼吸困难的状况。严重的会有肺进水的情况。

有肾病的病人不能吃含有多量磷酸盐(phosphate)的食物。血液里的磷酸盐与钙质是息息相关的。因肾不能正常的操作，多余的磷酸盐不能排出体外， 会造成血液里的磷酸盐量不断提高，也因而造成血液里的钙质降低 ，导致血液里出现不平衡的状况。为了达成磷酸盐与钙质的平衡， 人体会产生一种贺尔蒙(原谅笔者的忘记，我不是读理科的料)，把在人骨里的钙质取出，移到血液里。这现状会造成骨骼容易脆弱和断裂。因为洗肾并不能把所有的磷酸盐排除，所以，如果病人要吃含高量磷酸盐的食物， 一定要吃phosphate binders，把部分的磷酸盐‘抓住’，排泄出体外。

一般，医生会按照病人心脏的大小，建议出病人应该维持的体重。所以，要做一个听话的病人是非常难的，因为人常常改变不了自己从前的饮食习惯，听不进医生的叮咛。

*跟不听话的病人进行辅导， 一小时的辅导，笔者需花两小时或一整天的时间休息。如：18/06 （晴天）- 笔者放工后，直接睡了十一多小时......